Originally Posted By: ScaredinCanada
I guess what I'm getting at is I'm wondering how big a deal it is if you now have seperate accounts? Is she just trying to restore her independance?

All our bank and major credit accts have been joint accts in our 18 yrs of marriage.

Yes, she is trying to restore her independence (and get a jump on being divorced, it seems to me)

That's why this is causing me anxiety right now. And the fact that she has an appt. today. Usually if it's hair or nails she'll just say so. This time, just an appt.

Me 53 XW 50
M 18 Years +2
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