Originally Posted By: Greek
Won't detaching and going dark push them farther away? I don't feel close to him at all...right now.
Further away than what? Another woman? He's already there. Accept this.

Detach. Like he is gone.

Get on with your life. B/c you have to. B/c waiting for him or any other man to solve YOUR problems is WRONG and UNHEALTHY.

Do a search of Kalni's thread. Do a search of Mindfull's thread. Read and learn.

"What is best for my kids is best for me"
Amor Fati
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