Originally Posted By: Allen A
...I think its important for a WS to know the kind of damage they are doing, but at the same time I think its important to not look weak or in any way distasteful... No one wants to be around a whiner... But if you can say it resolutely with your dignity I think that's OK.

But the problem is a lot of new visitors to this forum start sending text messages and they end up just looking NEEDY...

It's a hard line to walk I know... Its very hard to look hurt without looking pathetic...

"What is best for my kids is best for me"
Amor Fati
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