Originally Posted By: Allen A
The idea of NOT contacting him is to get the attachment feelings to kick in.. basically to press him to miss you.

Originally Posted By: Allen A
He told you a while ago he wanted to stop using the intermediary, that's usually a good sign that you KEEP doing it, not STOP doing it.

"What is best for my kids is best for me"
Amor Fati
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