Originally Posted By: Coach
She tells me "I don't know if we SHOULD stay together"?
Agree with her. "I agree. I am not sure I want to be married to someone I can't trust. I have some decisions I need to make."

It means she tested you. She can't believe you would be in a R with a woman who betrayed you. Her question was a statement.

"What is best for my kids is best for me"

Persevere = happily being patient over a long period of time