One of my 180s this week was going to be to ask him what night he could be home early so I could go out for a little bit on my own. If he asks where I guess I'll tell him to a few stores. This will give me a little bit of time to shop for new clothes without toting 2 toddlers and give them some time with their daddy without me around to either critique him or run over to help out if someone cries.
Perfect! Make sure you do it. Something healthy for you as a person to do.
"What is best for my kids is best for me"
Persevere = happily being patient over a long period of time