Originally Posted By: Coach
I also can't seem to stop defending myself either.

If she is telling you how she feels or what she thinks then let it be and agree with her. It's her choice how she thinks and what she feels.

If she tells you what you think/feel/believe or has behavior that is unacceptable then you bring it up.

"What is best for my kids is best for me"
Amor Fati
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