Today I sent her an email summary of all we discussed in the meeting we had. I had originally composed an opening paragraph to let her know i didn't agree with the separation but thanks to reading Gucci's thread and your advice I reread it and it just looked like i was asking her to reconsider.
I deleted it and just said i appreciate the calmness in the house over the last couple of days and here is the details of what we discussed.
SOMEONE IS LEARNING!!!
"What is best for my kids is best for me"
Persevere = happily being patient over a long period of time