You want to do MORE than just end it, you want to make the exciting private affair into a public scandal he wants to get AWAY from... you get the idea...
You exposing it did a lot of damage there... It's not fun now, its just embarrassment.. The more uncomfortable the affair looks to him the more likely his return.
"What is best for my kids is best for me"
Persevere = happily being patient over a long period of time
