Originally Posted By: Allen A
Make the affair is unpleasant an experience as you can.. if you out him to family and all of his friends and make it a known fact that you have forgiven him and invite him to work on the marriage he will get a nasty reputation and the only way to save it is to end the affair and come home... otherwise he's the town creep

AND it makes OW look like a sleazy home-wrecker

Infidelity is fun and exciting in secret

Once you out them it becomes a stressful public scandal

"What is best for my kids is best for me"
Amor Fati
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