Your H does not have your or the family's best interests in mind right now. You have to take the lead on being prepared.
Have you seen a L to know where you stand?
Do you have access to money in your name only?
Do you have a support network?
Have you read up on exposure?
Do you really understand boundaries?
Are you taking care of yourself - physically, mentally, emotionally and spiritually?
Don't ask a WAS to decide anything, you decide for yourself what is best and take the appropriate action. Goals - Plan- Action. Think don't react (emotion).
No matter what happens make your mind up to come out of this a wiser, stronger, healthier and better woman. Thrive don't survive. You can handle it.
"What is best for my kids is best for me" Amor Fati Link to quotes: https://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2879712
