Originally Posted By: Puppy Dog Tails
Just remember, there's nothing wrong with you saying to her -- in response to WHATEVER she brings up:

"I'm just not sure how I feel about that anymore."


"I'm afraid it's not that easy anymore."


"I don't know HOW I feel."


"I'm not sure WHAT I want to do. I appreciate you sharing your thoughts with me, and I'll certainly think hard about them."


"What is best for my kids is best for me"

Persevere = happily being patient over a long period of time