I agree about doing what's best for the kids.

I did goto D5 party last year at her moms and thant was a week after she moved out. My DB coach suggested I go and enjoy the moment for my D, however that was when I thought there was hope the reconcile.
This time it's different, I'm in a different mind set and really don't want to see her or her family. I also don't want the kids to get false hope by seeing us together. D5 just two weeks ago was crying to me about that so I don't want her to have those feelings revisit her.

W did say at the end of her invite that she would understand if I didn't come.

Her P's have been D for 20+ years. Her mom remarried and dad didn't.
They both would come to family functions in the past.
I think W thinks we will have the same R with eachother has her P's do.

Maybe, but not anytime soon.

She also blocked me from her FB account. I don't know why I could see anything on her wall.

Just waiting for her to reply the the email about the finances.
She replied to my other other emails about the kids and schedule.

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