Yes, it's a personal decision for everyone. I know why my W left. I know what I need to do for my sitch and it's not dating. I can completely understand Gucci's advice about dating though, but again, it's just not for me. I do like Gucci's other advice to me.
I understand about the dating it doesn't mean you can't be mysterious and interact with women. Get on FB and start making friends with some women - DB friends, old HS/college friends, co-workers etc. Go out with your friends to bars, listen to music, festivals. The word will get back to your wife that you are a busy man. You don't have to cross any of your beliefs or values to accomplish the same thing.
Originally Posted By: WalkingMan
It's not about dating, it's about being mysterious and keeping her guessing. If asked, be vague.
Don't make things easy for her. Make things easy for you.
"What is best for my kids is best for me"
Persevere = happily being patient over a long period of time