I was given an exceptional piece of advice at this very same stage of my sitch, and I'm glad I followed it: treat your spouse with civility and grace, and it will pay you dividends down the road regardless of what the two of you decide to do. Hugs
Good advice. I continue to do this. What you sow, you will reap.
"What is best for my kids is best for me"
Persevere = happily being patient over a long period of time