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Ive always been a big hearted person and giving with no expectation




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Well thats just me, it would have made me feel better that I was helping.


Thats the Nice Guy mentality it doesn't work in a marriage over the long term. You are giving with expectation - you want her to like you, see you as big-hearted and not be angry with you. Google Robert Glover and his book "No More Mr Nice Guy" (NMMNG).

Cheers


M22,H45,W45 S21/18D12
Retain faith that you will prevail in the end, regardless of the difficulties and at the same time confront the most brutal facts of your current reality, whatever they might be.