He told me everything was fine and cuddled me. Then he said it was silly to dream that because it would never happen. I told him that comments like that certainly didn't reassure me because he was just proving that he is dismissive of my fears. He was quiet for a minute then apologized.
Geeeeeez, Pearl, that's a little HARSH, don'tchathink? He was COMFORTING you for goshsakes!
