Kalni hit the nail on the head and described it much better than I did.

What "expectations" do you have? When you have preconceived "expectations" you're setting him up to fail.

M-43 W-40
2D - 9 and 5

Emotion, yet peace.
Ignorance, yet knowledge.
Passion, yet serenity.
Chaos, yet harmony.
Death, yet a new life.

RECONCILED AND WISER