You can't put a time limit on these type of things. Some take weeks or months or years...

obviously, any backslides along the way, prolongs the process.

You're obviously not fixed because you are still worrying about what the W is doing and what she is thinking.

You need to put that energy into yourself.

Worry about you. I know it's not easy.. but just try!


M: 32
H: 34
S:5
D: 3
D: 1
Together 11 years
Married 7
Bomb: PA/EA 8/13/09 (for 1 year on and off)
ILYBINILWY: 08/09

"The end of suffering happens with the end of wanting."
-Laura Munson