Thanks for the reply Greek. I was thinking this whole ordeal could have been over and done with by now if she was so sure she wanted a D. I do believe she felt the same way you did about leaving. She just knew she had to get out from the R.
My follow up Q for you is then-
Once you decided to work on your R, what were your first actions?
Did you make the first move? If so what was it?
I don't know if you read my whole SIT but she did offer to take time off of work to watch the kids so I could go on my annaul fishing trip. I took this as a sign of friendship. Why else would you offer such a thing?
I am trying not to get my hopes up. Just accepting it as a kind jesture. keep in touch. thanks gr8
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