Thanks for the reply Greek.
I was thinking this whole ordeal could have been over and done with by now if she was so sure she wanted a D.
I do believe she felt the same way you did about leaving.
She just knew she had to get out from the R.

My follow up Q for you is then-

Once you decided to work on your R, what were your first actions?

Did you make the first move? If so what was it?

I don't know if you read my whole SIT but she did offer to take time off of work to watch the kids so I could go on my annaul fishing trip. I took this as a sign of friendship.
Why else would you offer such a thing?

I am trying not to get my hopes up. Just accepting it as a kind jesture.
keep in touch. thanks gr8

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