he didn't think he had any input because I had already decided.
If he thinks he has no say it's no wonder he's not bringing it up. Pearl, can you put his pants back on him? Let him be responsible? Trust him to make the right decision to move to SF? Hun, what is you positive answer on SF?
Just a thought. Sometimes we fight so hard for our rights and independence that men forget or never learn how to be responsible for both of us (them?). Sorry my English is escaping me, I should go to bed. Happy Easter!
Let him be responsible? Trust him to make the right decision to move to SF? 
