Swimming against the current - PH in piecing

[pearlharbr]

Yes, going to SF with or without BF. Job hunting from here, need a job before I can move.

He knows this is what I want. I talked to him about it, asked what he thought about moving, the pros and cons. He said he knew it was what I wanted, he didn't think he had any input because I had already decided. I said I know what I want but I'm willing to hear his opinion so I can make the best decision based on all the information. He said he needed some time to digest. This was now over two months ago. He's had enough time. If he chooses not to have the conversation with me then I will make my decision based on the information I currently have.