Swimming against the current - PH in piecing

[pearlharbr]

He won't flip out. He's extremely conflict avoidant. Plus he knows it's what I want to do. I think he's just avoiding it now because he knows how lazy I am when it comes to finding a job.

Incentives for him to move? I will be there. Honestly I'm unsure if he would like it. He did like Seattle but while there are similarities it is still much more urban (than where we lived in Seattle) and therefore more crowded and more expensive. He loves the weather in CO and I'm not sure he can handle going back to no seasons, fog, and mild all the time.

I'm trying not to mind read and predict the future. That's why I'm just going to focus on finding a job and let things happen from there.

Thanks for your concern WA.