Yes, he is trying in some regards but we haven't had a R discussion in a few months. Part of me thinks it's bad because we're just slipping back into old patters, part of me thinks there haven't been any serious issues to discuss. I want to have a check-in convo but I also don't want to always be the person who initiates these talks.
Dudess, I think it's more of the former but also some of the latter. And that is exactly why it bothers me so much. I have stated numerous times how I feel about it. I understand that it doesn't bother him (the house being picked up) but the fact that it's one of my pet peeves should be enough for him to remember to tell me.
For now I'm choosing to put this in the category of the 60% of things that couples always argue about and never resolve.
The plan right now is sort of a lack of a plan. I need to get my act together and get a job in SF. Once all the moving stuff starts to happen we'll see how things shake out.
If you love somebody, set them free. http://tinyurl.com/2empx2g
