Yow, that all sounds hard.

How very hard to bring up such a big topic: let's move to SF...and then hear...radio silence. Hello? do I have to bring it up again? what do you think about it?

Is this sort of communication something you can or have tried to work thru in MC?

It would be very hard to live with that. Next time: what do you think about having a baby? and waiting...and waiting...for him to speak up about that.

But, overall, you were triggered, and more sensitive, and more upset than you otherwise might be.

Hopefully you can take a deep breath, and confront BF on this-and big topics like moving to SF--when you are more calm.

How does he feel about moving? What holds him where you are--work? friends? family?

Sorry it's a rough patch--and I was enjoying hearing how sore you were after PB class!