I just noticed that book in the book store... by the same author as AFA if I remember correctly. I almost bought it, but thought I've got enough reading on the go so it is one for down the road. Talia, let us know what you think...
Forgiveness is a process IMHO. It's not a one time thing. You may have forgiven him for the A, but you are still going to need to keep doing it over and over when the hurt and anger resurface. For me, I feel like I have made the decision to forgive but am now in the process of that on a day to day basis. And, with a betrayal like this, it is a loooooonnnng process!