I never doubted the fact that we would spend our lives together before the A. It wasn't even a question. But after this breach of trust I have had several friends come forward and say they didn't think we would stay together and that I could do so much better. I'm not someone who lets friends and family make decisions for me, but OTOH, I'd also hate to be the person who ignores the advice of loved ones because I'm too entrenched.
Argh!
If you love somebody, set them free. http://tinyurl.com/2empx2g