It sounds like finding a way to attend IC would be a good step for you right now. Does your BF have a plan thru work? That is how we are doing it...
Those are big questions and totally understandable. I find myself waffling around those questions myself. And, honestly, if we didn't have kids I don't know where I would land. The kids and the family life we have had all these years keeps me more firmly in the "stay and work on things" camp, but there are days when I wonder...
I wish I had something to offer here... It's hard when we are where other DB'ers would like to be and that find we have days we are not sure we want to be here... It is so hard.
I am thinking of you. I think the key is you need to figure out what is good for YOU. That could go either way, and IC could really help you sort that out.
