Swimming against the current - PH in piecing

[Hope4us]

I'm with ya ladies. I really don't care for country music. W pretty much detests it. Both of us are ok with the more rock type country, but true country...with no offense to those country music lovers out there....sucks.

But....OM loves country music and of course, during her A, she had a new found love for it. It took W a while, but she's now back to not being able to stand it. But everytime I hear CM or see an advertisement for the CMA or the like, I trigger.

And Pearl, OM in my case has had at least 5 A's that his exW knows about and with them living 100's of miles apart all the time, you know there's at least twice that many. So when someone tells me my W is equally at fault, I agree to a point, but OM is a player, obviously being married (himself or his victims) doesn't matter to him and my W truly thought he was in love with her and was going to marry her.....when the whole time he was only after one thing. In fact, one time when my W was screaming at me for exposing to OMW, I said to her "I don't know why you're angry, now that OMW knows, they can divorce and we can divorce and you two can live happily ever after. Oh yeah, that's right, he blew you off when she found out". Ouch. I bet that hurt her and I probably shouldn't have said it, but at the time, I didn't really care.

Water off a ducks back. Learn it, live it. It does get better. The more my wife shows me she "get's it" the less severe those triggers are.

P.S. Those shoes are HOT. I would love to see W in them...in bed