I feel bad thinking ill of someone I don't even know, but you know how it is once you've been burned.
Dudess, as soon as I read your reply I turned to BF and asked him about what would be happening communication-wise during the next couple weeks. He assured me that everyone in the department will be working and he will continue to call me to let me know what's going on. I doubt they will feel like going out to socialize afterwards until the last day (that's where the trouble started with OW). And the good news is that my friend M will be there too and I know if anything happens she will let me know. BF knows that M will tell me everything so I'm not tipping my hand there (she was ready to only invite me to her wedding next summer even though BF is her boss).
I will be going out of town for a few days during this heavy work time. When I booked the trip I thought it was great timing because BF will be so busy that he won't have time to spend with me and he might like to come home to a quiet house for a few of those days. Now I'm slightly anxious about going but I know once I get there I'll be too busy having fun to think about it.
If you love somebody, set them free. http://tinyurl.com/2empx2g
