it does make me uncomfortable when he chooses to hang out with people who actively condoned his affair and worked to split us up.
Understandable.
BF got me a lovely Tahitian pearl pendant for Christmas, just what I wanted. It's the first time he's ever bought me jewelry that didn't involve being at the store with me when I picked something out and just handing over his credit card. I have mentioned that I wanted Tahitian pearls a couple years ago so he isn't a total gift genius, but it's nice to know that he can pay attention if he so chooses.
That's wonderful that he remembered what you like and picked out something romantic and personal just for you, all on his own.
at first I was skittish about him working with so many women, but I can't do anything about it so I just let it go.
If he is trustworthy, it won't matter how many women he works with.
But then I met this woman and immediately got a bad vibe about her. . . . he's going to be working long hours for two straight weeks starting Saturday.
Pay attention to your bad vibe about her, but that doesn't mean that she can come between you and BF. People say dumb things sometimes and the remark may or may not have any basis in reality. You are lucky to have friend M.
My inclination would be to say nothing to BF about it. If anything more odd comes up, M will likely tell you. If there is anything going on, telling BF would just alert him about M.
Have you talked with BF about what would help you feel better as he is working these long hours?
