I hope you have a fabulous time skiing.

I can only imagine what it feels like to try and reclaim turf that BF gave to the OW.

Maybe focus on the fact that he IS there with YOU, not the "rack." Be the interesting YOU that he chose to come back to.

Stand on top of the mountain and shout: I belong on this mountain with BF! I'm here! Claim it, claim it, claim it as your space with him.

And I wish you lots of powder!


Me: 44
Him: 42
Together: 23 years; never married
Bomb: August 1, 2009
Affair since May 2009
Walk away; no conversation; no process