Hi - I have been lurking on the boards off and on for a few years. Yesterday I logged in and saw your thread and figured I had to reply. I read the whole thing from start to end and I swear you sound just like my wife and I am just like your BF. Some of the things you wrote that you said and how your BF responded were almost word for word for my wife and i have said. Maybe I can offer some insight into your BF since he sounds like me. Is he non-confrontational also? Go on the ski trip. He will be thinking about how lucky he is that you went. The place does not hold any feelings for him from before. He is looking to this trip for what it is. time to be with you. I would like to address some of the other things that you have said about what he did and what he says/does but i don't have much time today. If it is ok i will throw in my two cents also. if you are up for more reading you can read but i cant remember the title. I will try to find it this weekend. It talks about personality types might help you figure out why he does some things.
I got to go but i will get the information for you monday if you want
