Hi pearlhbr-

I don't have any wisdom to offer, but wanted to give you my love as you contemplate the past year and think about how to move forward.

thanks for your advice on my posts. I wish you good contemplation and wisdom.


Me: 44
Him: 42
Together: 23 years; never married
Bomb: August 1, 2009
Affair since May 2009
Walk away; no conversation; no process