Originally Posted By: dday101798

No there isn't other than letting her go and get a taste of the life she thinks she wants to have.

I totally aggree with this. You know the saying about being careful of what you ask for...you might just get it? My XW is finally getting it. Something I just could not give her before the divorce. At this point, I'm already dating someone new, casually mind you. I kow that if the XW knew this she would be very hurt. It's funny, XW left me but she's insanely jealous. Ahhh the cake-eating!

Formerly SGfan
M:8 yrs
T:10 yrs
Bomb: Dec '08
Separated: 4/18/09
Divorce: 8/28/09
XW Affair began: April 08