It really irks me when people say there is OP (other person) when they have NO idea. As if a woman would never just get fed up and want to reassess their life and situation...
Just because you get irked doesn't change the facts. The FACTS are that most (very high percentage) of women do NOT leave until they have OP. FACT.
It is ridiculous to not consider it. His wife has most ALL of the signs of a spouse in an affair. Just the things he has posted in a short time definitely gives ME an idea that it is a very distinct possibility.
I'm not arguing with you that it is a distinct possibility. I was relaying my observations IRL as well as my own experience. That's all.