Yes, It is differences in the way men and women communicate about sex that causes sex starved marriages. I was also always initiating sex with my wife and for the last few years I was getting the "I am tired" and she was out like a light in 5 minutes. That totaly shot my confidence and so the cycle began. I would try to initiate once or twice a week and get rejected. Then my wife would give in to please me and because of this there were no emotions involved.

So, long story short- if you just want a quickie...just tell him that! smile He would much rather hear that I am sure.


Me 35
Wife 34
Two daughters 8 years and 3 years
Bomb 3/30/09
W filed 4/16/09
We met in'92 married in 2000
Divorce final