Yeah, don't listen to your therapist.

When it says to detach, I didn't see much detaching or giving her space on your part. You said it yourself how you opened up the R talk. You haven't given her what she specifically asked See what happens when you totally give that to her. You had only done it for maybe a couple of days then you would backslide? It's got to take longer than that.

M-43 W-40
2D - 9 and 5

Emotion, yet peace.
Ignorance, yet knowledge.
Passion, yet serenity.
Chaos, yet harmony.
Death, yet a new life.