On the one hand you were detached from BF and being independent and strong. It seems to me you have made a big change in that regard to being much more dependent on/affected by his actions right now. Maybe that's why BF is not sure on how to behave?
Interesting and true point. I figured that I couldn't remain emotionally detached and work on the R. It wasn't working for me plus everyone was saying to open up more and be more trusting. So now it seems that I'm too attached? I just can't see the happy medium.
Also I'm not sure how much more dependent I'm being from pre-bomb days, I'm just being open with him about it. Before I would have felt the same way but been too scared to rock the boat to discuss it.
If you love somebody, set them free. http://tinyurl.com/2empx2g
