Swimming against the current - PH in piecing

[MrBond]

I'd say it's because you don't trust him therefore you can't be intimate with him.

With women it's all about emotions, so if you can't feel like you can't be vulnerable and open to him in your head, you're not going to be open to him physically.

Right now you're in a bit of a Catch-22 unless one or both of you change. Alot of our WAWs are like that. They "switch" off their attraction for us after they've opened themselves up to another person and feed their emotions into that the OP. Finding a way to turn that switch back on is the hardest thing to do.