Thought we were communicating well but apparently I was mistaken. While reading through xBF's work email tonight I discovered that he joined a summer volleyball league that he never mentioned to me. And the kicker is that OW was included on the invite email. He previously had told me that she was never involved with volleyball. So another lie and yet another thing I have discovered on my own.
I know it's a small thing, but it's always one small thing after another. I sent him an email expressing how upset I am over learning about this and said if he is not committed to total transparency I'm finished. I'm tired of having to play detective and drag things out of him. I'm tired of the excuse that "I didn't think that counted." He is not stupid and I will not lower my standards any further. It's time to shape up or ship out.
If you love somebody, set them free. http://tinyurl.com/2empx2g