But since you are so kind to check up on me, here's an update.
Still seeing xBF almost every day. Not sure if that's too much too soon or good to reconnect.
Fri we had lunch since I was going to be near his office. He was surprised because I usually go with my friend M (his coworker) and I paid for my own lunch.
Sat we went to Dave & Busters for dinner and skeeball. It was a fun evening, we haven't done that since last fall.
Today we did yard work. Not really together since he was in the front yard and I was in the back. He didn't get mad when I accidentally cut the extension cord with the hedge trimmer, whoops! We ordered Chinese food for dinner and cleaned up just as the rain started.
He was heading out when I asked if we were going to have a real talk since it's been almost a week. We discussed how to start dealing with things. He thinks we can talk it out on our own, I think we need a third party to guide us through it. We agreed to meet Thurs night and try to start. If it doesn't go well we'll go to a MC.
Then he invited me over to see his apartment. So I got the grand tour of the bachelor pad. Turns out I visited that apt complex when we were looking for apts when we first moved to town. He gave me a remote to the gate and garage so I can come over whenever I want. That was nice but I don't see spending much time there considering he has an empty living room and nothing in the fridge but beer, Coke and a bottle of Ranch dressing! His lease is for six months so that means it'll be up in August.
Nothing earth shattering, just swimming along.
If you love somebody, set them free. http://tinyurl.com/2empx2g
