Actually the advice is all the same when you look at it. Everyone's just saying to tell him what your needs and expectations are very specifically, make sure he understands, then let him run with them on his own by trusting him.
It's like talking to a kid (for lack of a better example). You show him what he did wrong, what he should do to avoid it, make sure he understands, then let him go with the understanding that he's not going to do it again.
Believe me, the majority of us would kill to be in your shoes right now and I think we're all just worried about your sitch going backwards.
But after all, most of us are simple-headed men. : )
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