Originally Posted By: stuck808


As far as talking to the OW, maybe you should have him talk to her so that she's not left hanging and he's got a sense of closure as well. That's gonna require you to do some heavy duty trusting, but I think this would be a great test.


I strongly disagree with this. All it will do is set his withdrawal "clock" back at 0:00.

The no-contact letter is her "closure."

Puppy