maybe you should have him talk to her so that she's not left hanging and he's got a sense of closure as well.
He did see her about 2.5 weeks ago to end things with her but apparently that's not enough for her.
He wrote the letter I requested telling her that it is over between them, he has chosen me out of love and telling her to end all contact because he will not respond. I'm putting it in the mail today.
Any further contact with OW is a deal breaker.
If you love somebody, set them free. http://tinyurl.com/2empx2g
