Swimming against the current - PH in piecing

[pearlharbr]

Um, but don't most of the guys here want their girls back? So we can't be all bad!

I can't express how frustrating it is to calmly and clearly state what I want and expect, then say something to the effect of "no, this isn't woman-speak, this is REALLY what I want and expect," only to have him do the opposite with the excuse, "oh, I didn't think you meant it."

I'm tired of the excuses because I know the men here are ready, willing and able to do the work necessary to rebuild their Rs. xBF can't just chalk everything up to being a "guy thing" when I know not all guys are like that.

I cannot spend the rest of my life like this. I think it was Sam that said it's like looking for a corner in a round room. Argh!