Well, I'm pissed off today. Didn't hear anything from xBF yesterday. Called around 10 pm his time (he's out of town for work) and no answer. Do I really think he's out cheating? No. But only because he's out of town and I don't think he brought xOW with him.

He did email this morning saying that he played in a poker tournament at a local casino.

This is a bad habit that cannot be started. I need more communication from him, not less. And he needs to communicate to me who/what/when/where beforehand, not the following day.

So I stewed about it for most of the day wondering if I should bring it up now via email or wait until we can talk over the phone or in person. I opted for email to get it off my chest now. Said I was upset with his lack of communication and explained that not knowing where he is and not being in contact leads me to think he is hiding something from me. Also said we need to put a transparency plan in place as soon as possible but we can discuss it when he has time. Ended the email with some chat so the entire message wasn't angry.

If you love somebody, set them free.
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