Interesting turn of events for you. Remember, you have to re-build - s l o w l y. You're becoming friends all over again - and there will be many awkward "goodnight" moments - to kiss or not to kiss? You know that's happened to all of us on first dates!
If you focus on having fun the "work" will happen naturally IMHO.
Like you, I've changed forums. Find me now in MLC.
Stay strong!
Me 56 H 47 Married 21 years No children Bomb & moved out 4/07 "My feelings have changed" & "I want to live by myself". Ow Bomb 8/07 H filed 6/08 D final 2/05/10