Kai, I am sorry you felt all my post related to you it was a generalisation in the main but I did think your calling the poster
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was not a very nice thing to do. Your own story is perhaps a little different than many here. I do agree with you about ending one relationship before beginning another but I feel maybe View felt he had done that and maybe his wife didn't or wouldn't hear his words and unhappiness. I am sorry that dispite your husband saying he loved you etc you still felt the need to D and the problems could not be resolved. I don't see how you ending the marriage makes him a coward. Could the affair have begun after you filed? The beauty of this site is that we all have differing POV and yet we all come together from all walks of life to support each other through their own personal pain. Maybe as your story is different from many you will able to offer insight to the newcomers.
