I don't know Jeff, what happens when the kids find out mom went to court to kick dad out? what will mom tell the kids?
I remember AV8R well, are you in touch with him? I'd love to hear from him, know how he is doing. I still think his L was sleeping during court. How did he get to a D so fast, she filed in June/July and all over in Sept/Oct? That was a flashback to read those posts again. Maybe someday I'll have the courage to read my own again.
Live your life while you are still living. Riding the trail less traveled.